{"id":4478,"date":"2015-01-22T20:35:47","date_gmt":"2015-01-22T20:35:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/occamstypewriter.org\/athenedonald\/?p=4478"},"modified":"2015-01-22T20:35:48","modified_gmt":"2015-01-22T20:35:48","slug":"am-i-a-lady","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/occamstypewriter.org\/athenedonald\/2015\/01\/22\/am-i-a-lady\/","title":{"rendered":"Am I a Lady?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I am of a generation that was brought up with (though most certainly not to laugh at) the joke &#8216;That&#8217;s no lady, that&#8217;s my wife&#8217;. Classist overtones? Undoubtedly, as well as inherent sexism: the word &#8216;lady&#8217; to me is not one with which I want to be associated. Let us leave aside the question of whether a knight&#8217;s wife should be deemed a Lady, though that also contains inherent sexism: my husband has no title deriving merely from the fact that I am a dame, the female equivalent of a knight, as such a Lady does. However, use of the word &#8216;lady&#8217; continues to be used in ways I regard as sexist and demeaning: as in &#8216;here is top lady scientist Professor X&#8217;. And yes, I have been introduced essentially in that cringe-inducing way. As far as I&#8217;m concerned, either I should be introduced as a top scientist or just call me Professor without any adjectival qualifier (I will return to the idea of &#8216;adjectival&#8217; below).<\/p>\n<p>So when the Buzzfeed Life section ran a listing on what women at the top would offer by way of advice to young women setting out I felt a little put off by its headline referring to &#8216;lady bosses&#8217;, albeit I am well aware of the honour I should feel at the sight of my own words appearing in such a list (and if I hadn&#8217;t known beforehand, my Twitter feed soon spelled this out ). My own tweet expressed slight unease about the title (poorly reproduced below) and the next time I looked the offending word had been removed (so thank you Rachel if you&#8217;re reading this). Now the title simply reads <a href=\"http:\/\/www.buzzfeed.com\/rachelwmiller\/tips-for-slaying-at-work#.ggz04mWe4\">&#8216; 21 Tips For Slaying At Work From Top\u00a0Bosses&#8217;<\/a>\u00a0 which seems positive enough.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4484\" src=\"https:\/\/occamstypewriter.org\/athenedonald\/files\/2015\/01\/ladytweet21.jpg\" alt=\"ladytweet2\" width=\"368\" height=\"445\" srcset=\"https:\/\/occamstypewriter.org\/athenedonald\/files\/2015\/01\/ladytweet21.jpg 283w, https:\/\/occamstypewriter.org\/athenedonald\/files\/2015\/01\/ladytweet21-248x300.jpg 248w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 368px) 100vw, 368px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>However let me return to the adjectival use of the word lady which I so dislike. It has always jarred on me although I&#8217;d never stopped to wonder why; the word &#8216;woman&#8217; as a prefix would annoy me almost as much if used in this way. Then I read <a href=\"http:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/media\/mind-your-language\/2014\/oct\/17\/women-doctors-women-mps-women-bishops-mind-your-language\">an article in the Guardian<\/a> during the autumn and all was made plain. I was reacting against the bad English as much as against the highlighting of gender. I am not a woman scientist &#8211; any more than I am a lady scientist. If it is felt necessary to point out that I am a woman, the correct usage is that I am a <em>female scientist<\/em>. Woman and lady are nouns and should not be used to qualify another noun. This is not a new complaint. Dorothy Sayers in her 1935 novel <a href=\"http:\/\/www.google.co.uk\/url?sa=t&amp;rct=j&amp;q=&amp;esrc=s&amp;source=web&amp;cd=1&amp;ved=0CCMQFjAA&amp;url=http%3A%2F%2Fen.wikipedia.org%2Fwiki%2FGaudy_Night&amp;ei=ptO-VJagGMuuUanDgIAJ&amp;usg=AFQjCNG9pdTQb5VPEpGQhSH1sVNWCyzXnw&amp;sig2=stGqfbKBNhqunlmwCRNAZg&amp;bvm=bv.83829542,d.d24\">Gaudy Night<\/a> about a fictitious Oxford women&#8217;s college and speaking through the voice of her quasi-heroine Harriet Vane, objected to the head of the college being referred to as a &#8216;Lady Head&#8217;. I suppose in that language I would be a Lady Master. It&#8217;s just wrong, as well as distasteful.<\/p>\n<p>Now by and large I see no reason why my gender should be relevant when I am introduced as a speaker; after all it&#8217;s pretty obvious once I&#8217;m standing there that I am indeed a woman. I am a scientist who happens to be a woman, however, not someone who is doing womanly science. Nevertheless, if my profession has to have a gendered tag attached to it to satisfy someone&#8217;s sense of \u2013 well what? Old-fashioned chivalry? \u2013 let&#8217;s say propriety, I wish they could get their grammar right.<\/p>\n<p>But one should ask \u2013 although the moment of a public introduction hardly seems the right moment to do this \u2013 why is it necessary to identify my gender at all? I find it hard to imagine introducing a man as &#8216;here is male Professor X&#8217;, let alone as &#8216;gentleman Professor X&#8217;. I&#8217;m afraid it comes down to the quote of Samuel Johnson<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>woman&#8217;s preaching is like a dog&#8217;s walking on his hind legs. It is not done well; but you are surprised to find it done at all<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Since it still seems surprising to some to find, for example, a female physicist giving a seminar, such people appear to feel obliged to refer to it. I can&#8217;t help feeling that those who choose to stress my gender in introductions probably think, misguidedly, they are somehow complimenting me because of my rarity value.\u00a0 From where I stand, it doesn&#8217;t feel that way.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I am of a generation that was brought up with (though most certainly not to laugh at) the joke &#8216;That&#8217;s no lady, that&#8217;s my wife&#8217;. Classist overtones? Undoubtedly, as well as inherent sexism: the word &#8216;lady&#8217; to me is not &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/occamstypewriter.org\/athenedonald\/2015\/01\/22\/am-i-a-lady\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":18,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4478","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/occamstypewriter.org\/athenedonald\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4478","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/occamstypewriter.org\/athenedonald\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/occamstypewriter.org\/athenedonald\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/occamstypewriter.org\/athenedonald\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/18"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/occamstypewriter.org\/athenedonald\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4478"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/occamstypewriter.org\/athenedonald\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4478\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/occamstypewriter.org\/athenedonald\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4478"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/occamstypewriter.org\/athenedonald\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4478"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/occamstypewriter.org\/athenedonald\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4478"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}