{"id":4893,"date":"2016-02-08T21:50:57","date_gmt":"2016-02-08T20:50:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/occamstypewriter.org\/athenedonald\/?p=4893"},"modified":"2016-02-08T21:50:57","modified_gmt":"2016-02-08T20:50:57","slug":"permission-given","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/occamstypewriter.org\/athenedonald\/2016\/02\/08\/permission-given\/","title":{"rendered":"Permission Given"},"content":{"rendered":"

This is a post about professional anxiety and what might be done to alleviate it. Consider who asks questions after departmental seminars or conference talks: too often it is the usual suspects (although my impression is that this is getting less common). Years ago I can remember conferences where it was always the same half dozen senior professors, who sat right towards the front, who would jump in, implying as they did so that it was the continuation of an ongoing \u2018in\u2019 debate. Of course this discouraged anyone else from contributing. Conferences are always the better for diverse questioners (as well as diverse speakers). And questions need to be about the talk itself, not about scoring points or self-aggrandisement, an argument nicely made here<\/a>.<\/p>\n

But what of those who hesitate to ask questions? Even if a wide range of people are prepared to ask questions, are you? I know that this particular skill is not my forte. I don\u2019t enjoy it and rarely open my mouth \u2013 at conference or seminar \u2013 however senior I may have become. This is an admission I have made before<\/a> in the wake of exhortations from others, notably Dorothy Bishop<\/a>. Is this a gender thing? Do women ask fewer questions? Or perhaps their hands are more prone to be overlooked by chairs who home in on senior, white males in preference to any other category of speaker? It is perfectly possible that both questions may be answered in the affirmative; it is equally possible that the latter feeds the former.<\/p>\n

If you are one of the nervous, fearful kind \u2013 be you male or female \u2013 it is worth contemplating if there is anything you can do that might help. I came across a situation recently that made sense to me as creating a possible mental intervention. Acting as host for a speaker, chairing the seminar, I knew it was my responsibility to step in to ask a question if the audience was silent. It was my job to do this and so I did it with absolutely no qualms, unlike my usual reluctance at question time. That incident made me wonder whether this isn\u2019t a more generally useful strategy. On this occasion I\u2019d been given \u2018permission\u2019, indeed more than that it was my duty to pose a question. So I did it. Would that work in other situations?<\/p>\n

I throw this out as a suggestion. If you are a nervous PhD student about to give your first platform presentation in front of an audience of strangers, will you feel better if you remember you are repaying the funder\u2019s money by speaking out? Since you would not want to be considered to be wasting the tax-payers\u2019 money, or the medical charity\u2019s, then perhaps you might wish to recall you have a duty to spread the word of how that money has been spent. I don\u2019t know if that might alleviate the nerves, because I can\u2019t put myself back in an equivalent position, but it strikes me as a plausible route that might work for some people.<\/p>\n

The same is true of speaking out at committee meetings. There will always be difficulties of group dynamics, the incompetent chair<\/a> or overweening members<\/a>, but nevertheless you will be there for a reason. Perhaps you are the representative of a department, a grouping or a gender. That group will be looking to you to act on their behalf, which being silent is unlikely to fulfil. So, once again, the scary task can be recast as a duty. And duties are incumbent upon you; not opening your mouth and saying what your community feels about the topic under discussion is failing in that duty. Therefore, it is not temerity to speak up: it is an obligation. You have tacit permission.<\/p>\n

Fear can arise for many reasons, but the feeling that one doesn\u2019t \u2018deserve\u2019 something and therefore it would be inappropriate, putting yourself unnaturally forward or showing off (however wide of the mark such sentiments might be) may all serve to hold you back. Rephrasing speaking up as a duty might overcome that mind set. However, the fear may also arise from a sense of incompetence, again however misplaced a feeling. Nevertheless, if you are representing a group you have to believe they have chosen you for a reason. If you are talking about your research it is because someone \u2013 supervisor or conference organiser \u2013 believes you have something of note to say that others would benefit from hearing. Indeed, as junior researchers it is far more likely the audience will benefit from listening because they will not have heard your dulcet tones and hot-off-the-bench results before, unlike some of the big names whose voice, several-year-old results and anecdotes may have been heard again and again and again.<\/p>\n

So, whatever devils you are facing, try to recast that fear into something that is less about your internal feelings and more about what you can give out to others. It might just make it possible to raise your voice above a squeak and set out in meticulous detail all the ideas that you have been turning over in your brain for weeks, months or even years. None of that means that people will actually listen, hear or act upon your words however wise, but at least you will know you\u2019ve given it your best shot. Give yourself permission.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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