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I should have known better. At the Hay Festival last week, as my last post<\/a> alluded to, I mentioned the gendering of toys. This point was one of many I tried to put across during my talk on why the cultural stereotypes we impose essentially from birth on our children, boys and girls alike, is not likely to lead to the best outcomes for individuals or for the country. I was specifically trying to make the point we are losing talent from the pool of potential innovators and, if one of the key problems with our economy is our lack of innovation in the UK<\/a>, losing this talent has to be detrimental. The questions I was asked after my talk covered the full spread of issues I raised; they were intelligent, searching question from an involved audience. I ended up with a slide of the 20 actions I believe everyone can find one or more to make their own: Just1Action4WIS<\/a>. But I should have known better than to introduce toys into the conversation.<\/p>\n

Two years ago, in my Presidential address for the British Science Association<\/a> it was Barbie: I mentioned \u2018her\u2019 in a sentence or two \u2013 out of many pages. And it was Barbie that was the one angle that every mainstream newspaper picked up in the UK. And it was Barbie that formed the focus of every single radio interview I did \u2013 for the Today programme<\/a> and what felt like a large proportion of local radio stations. In one sense I didn\u2019t mind.\u00a0 I was impressed by the way the interviewers approached the topic. I felt \u2013 and this was no doubt why it was picked up\u00a0 for local radio \u2013 it was a topic the presenters could easily understand in the context of their own families and they wanted to know why I felt only<\/u> giving girls Barbies and not offering them the choice of Meccano (or Lego), for instance, mattered. I know not everyone does believe this matters, and goodness knows there are enough other ways in which our society collectively imposes gender stereotypes (as my Hay talk made plain), but it does seem to me to be something that is very easily avoided. So why do toy manufactures and toy shops continue to make gender choices so stark? And why do more shops and parents not heed the advice of Let Toys be Toys<\/a>? Nothing wrong with Barbie, pink Lego Friends or whatever per se<\/em>, but it should not be the unremitting diet of a young girl\u2019s playtime.<\/p>\n

After Hay, after I came away feeling pleased that I had survived my experience and felt I had been heard with interest, when I got up the next day I realised my mistake. By the time I checked my email at 8am interview requests were coming in and the fact that this aspect of my talk had made it onto the front page of the Daily Telegraph<\/a> had already been brought to my attention. \u00a0Nevertheless, the interviews with local radio once again went well, in the same spirit as two years ago. The problems arose with TV.<\/p>\n

I agreed to do an interview through Skype with Sky News over lunchtime. This did not go well; the interviewer seemed less well informed and the questions weren\u2019t so helpful in drawing out the points I wanted to make. I found doing this interview \u2018down the line\u2019 disconcerting, since all one can see is oneself, and the angle the iPad was propped up to make (balanced on fat tomes of University Statutes) was not calculated to be flattering. Nevertheless I was slightly surprised, not to mention appalled, by the instantaneous hate-tweets that appeared. Just a handful and I\u2019m not going to repeat them all, although none quite amounted to death threats. One I did report to Twitter as abusive and harassment \u00a0(who acted promptly); one of the more bizarre, which appeared to refer to me as a terrorist \u2013 unless my eyesight is worse than I think \u2013 seemed to be rapidly deleted.<\/p>\n

So I will merely mention two explicitly. The first \u2018inspired\u2019 the title of this post: Get a life. I found it intriguing someone should write this to me, someone who had nothing better to do on a Friday lunchtime than watch Sky News and send immediate tweets about an interview to a complete stranger. No doubt it helped them believe their life had some point after all, that trying to shut a woman up who was speaking publicly was a productive use of their time. It was tempting to reply something along the lines of \u2018I\u2019m the Master of a Cambridge College. What do you do all day?\u2019, but remembering the wise advice not to feed the trolls I refrained.<\/p>\n

The other tweet I will mention took a different line in attempting to shut this particular woman up: go jump off a bridge. I don\u2019t think that amounts to a death threat, but it is hardly pleasant. I am reminded of Mary Beard\u2019s detailed accounts of public women being silenced, about which she has written here<\/a> and more recently here<\/a> so eloquently. (It is perhaps not irrelevant that when I mentioned these charming messages to a fellow female head of a college tweeter she remarked she\u2019d often had death threats.) I am puzzled why remarks about toys are seen as so threatening to what some perceive as the \u2018natural order\u2019 to require intimidatory messages to be fired off instantly.<\/p>\n

There is no doubt that this set of messages upset me more than perhaps they should. Whilst I understand that not everyone agrees with what I say, it doesn\u2019t strike me these remarks justify attempts to silence me (they won\u2019t of course succeed though it is possible they will make me more cautious). They pale into insignificance by comparison with recent acts or even the racist and misogynistic commentaries that too often adorn some mainstream newspapers. I am lucky to be in a position where the literal threat level is low but it only serves as a potent reminder that many people, whatever their gender, ethnicity or sexual orientation, daily run up against hate for no reason other than who they are. As we watch a new government forming we all have work to do to create a society of which we can be proud, rather than live in bunkers where if someone is not in the same one as you they instantly become the enemy.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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