{"id":646,"date":"2011-01-17T16:34:59","date_gmt":"2011-01-17T16:34:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/occamstypewriter.org\/athenedonald\/?p=646"},"modified":"2012-10-13T19:01:21","modified_gmt":"2012-10-13T19:01:21","slug":"blushes-and-bluster","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/occamstypewriter.org\/athenedonald\/2011\/01\/17\/blushes-and-bluster\/","title":{"rendered":"Blushes and Bluster"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Last week I participated in the Eureka Live<\/a> debate on Women in Science at the Wellcome Collection in London.\u00a0 My fellow panellist Ottoline Leyser<\/a>, spoke passionately in favour of being positive. (Ottoline, you may recall, is the author of that wonderful collection of life vignettes in the booklet Mothers in Science downloadable here<\/a>; she has just\u00a0 moved from York to my own university.)\u00a0 She highlighted how negatively the media often presents scientists and science and how damaging that is for encouraging students to pursue science at school and university. It also too often translates into conveying the view that combining children and careers for women is just too damn difficult \u2013 something readers of this blog will know I get worked up about too, as discussed here<\/a> and here<\/a>.\u00a0 Pessimism is something that fuels and amplifies lack of confidence, creating a destructive vicious circle. Confidence was a topic that was brought up by one of the audience in the Q+A session at the Eureka debate and I’d like to consider it further here.<\/p>\n

It is often stated that girls and women lack confidence more than men but confidence comes in many guises and in academic science there are different ways a lack \u2013 or indeed an excess \u2013 of confidence can manifest itself.\u00a0 I can think of examples of blushing, shy PhD students who feel sick before giving a seminar who then come across as strong and confident when it comes to the actual talk and give an incredibly polished performance.\u00a0 I can think of students who appear to be totally sure of themselves in one-to-one situations, who then fall to pieces and stumble when giving a public presentation and stammer themselves to a standstill in the subsequent question session. As it happens the examples I have in mind are in fact women in the first group and men in the second, but that\u2019s not necessary (although I suspect the blushing bit probably is biologically more likely to be women). \u00a0Indeed I also know an eminent male professor, now much in demand as a charismatic public speaker, who as a young man stammered so badly he could hardly spit out his own name at times.<\/p>\n

Then there is the person who is internally entirely sure of themselves, but feels no need to put themselves forward in meetings, simply exuding a quiet assurance, and whose presentations are understated.\u00a0 Finally there is the person who has (apparently) great self-confidence and can talk the hind legs off a donkey and yet, when pressed hard, you realise that their fundamental understanding is somewhat dodgy. The trouble is, you don\u2019t always get the chance to press hard and may consequently be misled \u2013 and this is the character I am most concerned about because too often they are the ones who land the jobs. I have heard members of appointments committees fret after the event did they get it right, or were they bamboozled by the fast-talking bluster (not, I am glad to say, any I have actually sat on).\u00a0 What these personality outlines show is that there are a variety of different ways actual and apparent self-confidence can manifest itself \u2013 what you see is far from always the underlying truth of what you\u2019ve got in front of you. I think one mustn\u2019t be too glib about this subject if trying to find ways to encourage young scientists to succeed, or assume a lack of self-confidence is the sole preserve of women.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t have scientific papers to quote here but, the saying always goes that men are more inclined to take risks whereas women are risk averse. I have heard this in so many different guises that I assume it is more than anecdote, and it was raised again at the Eureka debate.\u00a0 The times I have heard anxious comments made about the appointments’ committees I have to say it is the form of \u2018were we fooled by that man who came across so well compared with that understated woman?\u2019 But these characteristics can cut both ways: I was reading paperwork today which said of a male professor\u2019s research that it<\/p>\n

\u2018does not always get the attention and recognition it deserves.\u00a0 This is in part due to his modesty relative to his peers in this highly competitive field\u2019.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

However, I will keep this discussion on confidence gender-neutral and allow readers to make their own attributions if they want. When discussing confidence-building what should we actually be aiming at in our training exercises? If you feel internally a great lack of self-confidence what is the best strategy for success?<\/p>\n

The sine qua non, <\/em>the absolute minimum, has to be the ability to communicate clearly and audibly. Sounds obvious, but admissions interviews in Cambridge are complicated when students turn up so frightened they can\u2019t string a coherent sentence together. You cannot possibly judge a person under those circumstances, and yet you are forced to. By later career stages \u2013 interviews for a PhD, a post-doc or a lectureship \u2013 the candidates will have moved on a bit, but nevertheless nerves can get the better of most of us at times.\u00a0 I always tell my students giving presentations to practice, out loud, perhaps with the cat for audience if they can’t face a fellow human in the room, what it is they want to say. The very act of articulating sentences shows up where they are confused, their powerproint presentation has a vital link or diagram missing or when they simply can\u2019t pronounce a crucial word (personally I always try to avoid the word phenomenological which, not only do I have trouble spelling without a spell-checker, I always<\/span> have trouble speaking out loud).\u00a0 But interviews are harder to prepare for: some questions will be obvious, but others will come from left-field. So this is when other strategies come into play. Take your time, ask the panel to repeat the question, rephrase and repeat to check you have understood it correctly \u2013 all this gives time to suppress that momentary panic and get some logical thoughts together.<\/p>\n

But style, how do you cope with that?\u00a0 One thing that coaches work on is body language, and that is really about a set of tips that convey confidence whether or not it exists. I am told \u2013 though I haven\u2019t mastered this one \u2013 that when giving a lecture there are correct and incorrect ways to use the hands and, just to be subtle, these are different for men and women. I am afraid when I heard all this, saw the demos of what is meant to look convincing, what looks more like Maggie Thatcher and what looks like a timorous wreck I just gave up. It was too complicated. But maybe I\u2019m too old a dog to learn these new tricks (I only came across this last year) and if you\u2019re exposed to this before becoming set in your ways maybe it will work. Much simpler are ideas of where to look \u2013 at the audience of course, not your feet nor the screen (in a seminar) or the clock. But my trick on this is to look at the audience in a very impersonal sense, usually somewhere above their heads such as the back wall so I don\u2019t have to make eye contact with anyone. In an interview, though, eye contact is almost essential or you just look shifty.<\/p>\n

I am sure professional coaches could give a much longer list of do\u2019s and don\u2019ts, that isn\u2019t really my aim here. What I want to say is that self-confidence of the sort that can get you through tricky situations is something that can be simulated, whether or not accompanying internal self-confidence is acquired simultaneously or at all. If you feel a great hole at your centre, as many highly successful scientists most certainly do (remember the impostor syndrome<\/a>? I suspect it is almost ubiquitous amongst academics), you can still put on a pretty convincing act if you search out tips and practise. More worryingly, what I don\u2019t have an answer for is\u00a0 how \u2013 for the senior scientists doing the \u2018judging\u2019 \u2013 we can develop appropriate antennae to spot the person who exudes everything positive; who clearly doesn\u2019t have a hole at the centre and yet they really, really should have one because their actual skills are much weaker than fellow candidates who are merely nervous or insecure.\u00a0 Nevertheless, the key thing if you do lack self-confidence is not to let it undermine your accomplishments, but learn to fake an inner strength when in public.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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